What is semi free forming? Semi free forming is a way of locking. It is not an organized way of locking and many shy away from the process because of the beginning stages. Although the beginning stages could test the thickness of your skin (due to negative comments), the loc journey is very rewarding within itself. It will test your patience, it can increase your confidence, it can become a spiritual journey.
August 2nd will make two years on my semi free from lock journey. I would have never guessed that I would ever be locked but here I am today rocking this semi free form locs.
Check out this video of me sharing tips in hopes of encouraging you to follow through your unique journey embracing every step of the way.
According to natural hair stylist Yalonda Fields ( a stylist located in Vidalia, GA)- maintenanced locs equal healthy long locs.
To grow long healthy locs, it is important to care for your locs.
There are many different loc options as I am on a semi-freeform loc journey. Maintenance for you can mean many different things based on the type of locs you have chosen to have. For some, maintenance is cleansing, deep conditioning and re-twisting and for others it is cleansing and letting the hair take its’ course without re-twisting.
There are some tips that can help you to achieve maximum growth. The tips shared are tips that I have personally used on myself and have also gotten confirmation that it works for others on their loc journey.
I get it, we all want our hair to grow overnight. Ok, maybe that was a little extreme but if you allow your hair to grow without length checking so often (especially if it bothers you) and just focus on healthy hair care then before you know it you will have longer locs.
I take a look over my journey from time to time and can’t believe how far I have come. Take pictures to document your journey and revisit those pictures from time to time. You will see in your pics how much your hair has grown.
Being frustrated can cause stress and stress doesn’t help the hair to grow. It can actually cause hair loss. Take some deep breaths and embrace the journey every step of the way.
DO NOT RE-TWIST TO OFTEN
For those who love to have really neat looking locs, you have to be careful that you do not re-twist to often. Every once in a while give your roots a break. Over time, too much tension can cause your locs to began to break/pop off.
I do not apply these oils in combination to my locs all at one time. I will mix a few of them together or just use one at the time. You will have to see what works best for you.
Olive Oil, Coconut Oil and Jamaican Black Castor are penetrating and sealing oils. They penetrate the hair shaft and cuticle.
Grapeseed Oil, Jojoba Oil and Almond Oil are also sealing oils.
CLEANSE YOUR LOCS
I don’t know who created the myth that dirty hair grows faster. If your scalp is anything like mine, keeping dirty hair for too long will have you paranoid that your hair is stinky and your locs seem to be screaming for help as well as your scalp.
A clean scalp and clean hair is a okay. Not to mention how good you will feel after that good ole scalp massage. I wouldn’t pass that up for the world! I do wash my own hair but I still thoroughly enjoy taking the time with my hair and massaging my scalp.
In the beginning of my journey, I was told that I should wait until my hair locked before I washed them. Um…..nah. That wasn’t going to fly. I washed my hair three weeks into my journey.
I purchased a hair net and washed my hair through the hair net until my coils were able to stay in place during my wash.
Incorporate Bentonite Clay to into your hair care regimen to remove toxins.
Combine bentonite clay and water until you get a consistency that can be applied to your hair. Apply to wet/damp hair. Let sit for approximately 20 minutes (do not let dry). Rinse out.
My advice to you is to CLEANSE YOUR HAIR PLEASE!
EMBRACE YOUR JOURNEY
Do not compare your journey to anyone else’s. You are unique, as is your hair and you should embrace the journey every step of the way. Some will compliment you and some will think you have lost your mind taking this journey but it isn’t about anyone else but you.
When I started my journey, my hair was poking out everywhere. My own loving mother and grandmother told me I must have lost my mind or something. I think they wanted to send me off to get help. After all, I was relaxed before and now I had little coils doing what they wanted to do and I let them be.
I did’t feel as if I had gone through an “ugly stage”. My mother and grandmother now say they love my hair. They didn’t understand where I was going with “those things” as they called them. At the end of the day, understand that you are on this journey for your own personal reason.
PROTECT YOUR HAIR AT NIGHT
Cotton pillow cases and sheets are very common but they do not help your hair at all. They actually pull moisture from the hair as you are resting.
You can purchase a satin cap or a satin pillow case if a cap is out of the question. I personally do not like caps so I sleep on a satin pillow case. Give it a try and thank me later!
Do you need a loctitian? Book Your Appointment With Yalonda Fields at Face 2 Face Global Hair Studio
How is your loc journey coming along? Are there any problem areas that you would like to discuss?
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